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| 24 inches! |
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| About 30 inch bust? |
My sweet friends, that dress must have looked way bigger than it is! I have a 29 inch waist, to wear the dress I would need a 24 inch waist! I also have a 34DD bust and this dress is made for a much smaller bust line! It truly shows how much bodies in general have changed over the years. My mom would have worn this dress in her early 20's after having 2 kids. There are very few 20 year olds that could probably fit in it now. I think we are getting bigger!
Minichick's blog made me think, (scary) and my true opinion is that kids are simply too sedentary. Not enough recess, not enough outside play, not enough walking blocks/miles to your friends house. When I was young I would leave with a packed lunch in the morning and come home "before dark". We could never let our children do that now, it would be too dangerous. I also shared how I know of families that "do" buy sugar cereal or treats for their kids to be eaten out of house and home by kids that come over to play just to eat treats! Are they wrong to let the kids eat them? Have you ever told anyone visiting that they can't have something? We can't expect other's to police our children! We have to give them tools and knowledge. When kids are told
no, if there is a will, there is a way, unless you have total control over them 24 hours a day. Home schooling I know you would have more control, but there is a big- big world out there.
We always want what we can't have. There has to be balance!
On that note, maybe it is good that I have a 55 year old bladder and drink tons of water! I walk 10,000 steps a day to go potty:)
I am open to your thoughts on this, I am actually curious if you think I am way off the mark?
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| It's home, where it will be used! |
On the home front, yesterday brought even more interesting conversations with my mother. She swears she told me several times the dates of the estate sale. Wrong! And even if she did, we should have been allowed to walk through after things were priced and pick things. She called to say that she had heard that I had gotten the Christmas china and would I still be interested in buying her dining room set? I had advised her on how she would get pennies on the dollar for her treasures and before she gave the dining room set away, I would buy it. She kindly refused! Well, she didn't sell it because the estate dealer had it all covered up and you couldn't see how beautiful it was, or that it was Drexel Heritage and did not have a mark or ding from use. Perfect, pristine condition. It also has 2 leaves and a custom made pad to go over the top. Well, since it didn't sell, she took me up on my offer. So it is here! Now my kids can have Christmas on the dining room table that they had used until 2 years ago, and with the Christmas china that they had used until 2 years ago. We NEVER missed Christmas at my mom's house for their entire lives, until 2 years ago.
My husband is the BEST, because as much as I wanted the table, my first reaction was to say no. He supported me in deciding to say yes. He's a great guy:) And he puts up with me and my "yes" "no" that constantly runs in my head. Decisions are difficult for me! Ugh!!! AGE?
So happy day! On the BFC front, I feel powerful! I have this! I will stay here! I eat spinach!!! Who would have thought???
Blessings and happy scales!